So before I tell you how to go anywhere without your nursing baby, I have to tell you another story. I have actually already written this blog post. It used to live on my virtual assistant website (which was also skyemclain.com) but that website got hacked, and then eaten by a virus of my hosts server. All of that to say, go, back up your website right now, and do it once a week from here on out. I lost some of my highest traffic blog posts and some of my favorite. Hence why I am rewriting them again! 🙂 Now, on with the good stuff!
When Jett was about six months old, we were presented with the opportunity to take a tour of the Holy Land. While that was an extremely exciting opportunity, the thought of leaving my sweet, precious, helpless, exclusively breasfted, baby for 10 days was terrifying. I was so worried I my milk would dry up while I was gone or that when we got back, he would not want to nurse any more after several days of an easy bottle. So I started googling how on earth to make this happen! And guess what?
NADA.
Clearly I was the first mama to go on vacation without her nursing baby because I could find no information on how to make it happen! Cue the intense mom guilt. I nearly cancelled my whole trip because I was just so terrified of leaving him. Chris finally convinced me otherwise, and I’m so thankful. It was certainly the trip of a lifetime! And, I learned a LOT about how to travel without a babe and keep my milk pumpin!
Here are my tips for traveling without your nursing baby!
1. Pack Appropriately
I knew that I would be cramped on a tour bus with 50 or so other people the entire trip so I wanted to be sure I had ample ways to stay covered up while I was pumping. I had a couple of light scarves that I initially used as a cover that were cute and functional. But I’ll be honest, by the end of the trip, pretty much every one on our tour bus had seen my boob. Also be sure to wear comfortable, loose fitting tops that make for easy access! (Or honestly whatever is easiest for you) so that you aren’t spending more time getting in and out of your clothing than actually pumping.
If you are traveling overseas, make sure to get an adapter for any electric outlets as well. Or you may want to bring your battery power supply with extra batteries.
2. Take EVERYTHING
I made the horrible mistake of just taking my electric breast pump and none of the extra parts or pieces. This turned out to be a really bad decision. I was washing my pump and accessories after a session and looked down to realize that I had washed a membrane down the drain in he hotel sink. UMMM GUYS THE MEMBRANE IS PRETTY IMPORTANT. It is the little flap that closes on the back of the pump and creates the suction that brings on the let-down and milk flow. Without that membrane, my pump was basically USELESS. Cue the hotel bathroom melt-down.
I ran down to the lobby, at like 10PM, and through tears asked where the local drug store is, thinking I would be directed to a CVS or Walgreens or something. I mean, those are international brands, right? WRONG. While I was standing there blubbering to the poor hotel employee, one of our friends on the trip walked up and asked me what was wrong and once I filled him in, he found us a cab and went out in Jerusalem with us at 10PM (not the safest place or time for tourists!) to find this “drug store”. Bless it.
Suffice it to say, there was not a CVS or a Walgreens for thousands of miles. We pulled up to a literal hole in the wall store that sold everything from wigs to cigarettes to phone chargers. I asked the guy working behind the counter if he had a breast pump and you would have thought I had three eyeballs. However, the Lord does go before us, does He not? He had one old, dusty Tommy Tippee Manual Pump on a shelf. I handed over my $60 (!!!) for it happily and carried that thing with me everywhere for the rest of the trip.
All of that to say: HAUL IT ALL! Take your electric pump, all your backup supplies, membranes, cords, battery power, tubes AND a manual pump if you have one.
3. Drink lots of water
Traveling dehydrates you to begin with so be prepared to drink a LOT of water. I was drinking between 200-250 oz every day. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH WATER THAT IS? A lot. I brought my Nalgene water bottle with me and filled it up at every opportunity I had. I was shooting for 3-4 refills every day, but really hit about 5-6. I was damn determined to not dry up on this trip!
4. Eat, eat, eat, and eat some more.
Before we left, I cooked a batch of lactation cookies (recipe for that coming soon!) and brought them with me. They contain brewer’s yeast, oatmeal, and ground flax seed meal, which are all great ingredients for boosting your supply. They also have chocolate chips and butterscotch chips which make them delicious! 😉
I also kept food stashed in like every empty space I could muster up. I made myself simple sandwiches that would travel well throughout the day (a little baguette with some spreadable cheese and cucumbers or hummus and bell peppers) and snacked all day long. We were doing lots of walking and touring so I wanted to be sure I had plenty of calories for that along with making milk!
5. To keep, or not to keep?
If you are taking a short trip within your country and want to keep your breastmilk, be sure to bring a soft-sided freezer bag to store it in for the flight. Most hotels now have a mini fridge in them with a freezer or are happy to let you store milk in their freezers. Airlines will allow you to bring your milk through security as long as it is frozen. They will usually hand inspect it but there is no limit on the amount you can bring through! So if you want to save your milk, go for it mama!
I decided not to add that level of stress to my trip and I’m happy I did. It did mean that I had to dump all of my milk out, which was so painful at first that I made Chris do it! Liquid gold down the drain is NOT easy. By the end of the trip, I had poured it down the sink, in a tourist trash can, in a toilet… oh you name it I poured it. But there is no way I would have been able to get it back through security in Israel and I would have had way too much to try and keep up with. It was tough to pour out but in the end it worked well for me.
6. Get the hormones going.
The morning before we left, I took a video of Jett nursing in the cry room at church. Any time I started to worry about my supply drying up or I was having trouble getting a let-down, I would bust out my phone and watch that video and boom! Worked like a charm!
7. Be prepared for anything.
When traveling, really ANYTHING can happen. Here is proof. The second day of the trip, jet lag was really setting in and we had been going, going, going for nearly 48 hours straight. We finally got back to our hotel room and I got out my electric pump and started pumping. Chris and I sat and talked about the day and I was just trying to stay awake. I thought I heard a dripping noise and I looked down to find that, indeed, I had. I had pumped one entire side without the bottle attached to the shield. So I had literally pumped an entire boob into my lap. My pajamas were soaking wet, milk was dripping into the floor, and I had a lap full of milk. Umm, whoops? We still laugh about that story!
5. RELAX!
Mama – take a deep breath and relax!! You’re on vacation and you’re doing an amazing job! If you worry the entire time about your milk, you won’t enjoy yourself and come back refreshed, which is the point of a vacation right? Your baby misses you and loves you and will be so excited to have you back when you get home. If he never latches again, you’re still an amazing mama. If he doesn’t miss a beat? You’re an amazing mama.
Have you traveled without your babe? Do you have any other tips to offer? I’d love to hear your feedback in the comments!
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Roxanne Ferber says
Excellent tips! I never would have tried to travel while nursing. I have to share with my mommy groups!
Michele Katsaris says
Wow this is a great post for nursing moms. I think my mom's first vacation was a year after I was born so she never had to worry about that haha. nice post .xx felinebykatsairs.com
Cara W says
My friend is actually visiting me with her newborn and she will be on a transatlantic flight. This post is so helpful that I'm emailing her to let her know about your tips. Thanks for sharing!
Heather Lawrence says
I had that same breast pump! Mine's an older model but it looks just the same. Funny though, I still have it and my "baby" is 5 and in kindergarten. Your story made me laugh..that guy at the drug store must have wondered what the heck you were doing out so late!
Mariah says
These are some great tips that I can share with nursing friends!
Laura - Eye Candy Creative Studio says
I can not relate to this as I had issues even getting 'some' to come out and didn't get to have mine breastfeed for very long at all. It kind of sucks but what are you gonna do. Your story of everything you did though makes you a wonder mama! 😉 good for you
jillconyers says
I hit publish too quickly. Sorry for the delete. You have great travel tips for anyone. Nursing or not. I could never get the breast pump to work very well until a friend shared her new to me tips. I breastfed both of my kids for a year. Fortunately for me no problems.
Six Time Mommy TEST says
I love that type of pump. I used one a few years ago. I don't travel and don't think I will be once this new baby comes this summer but this is really great, and I am loving the tips! – Jeanine
Housewife Eclectic says
These are all such great tips! I had to travel a few times without my nursing baby and it was so so stressful!
Michele says
Im so sorry you got hacked…. that is the worst thing to happen to a blogger… I just forwarded this to my friend with the 3 month old adorable daughter who is going on a monthlong excursion…. There are some great tips in here! Thanks
Koninika Patel says
Oh my god! I'm so glad you blogged about this! So appropriate for me as I'm getting ready for baby number 3! Very informative and you added a personal touch to it! Thanks for sharing !
Hil'Lesha O'Nan says
These are wonderful tips! I have never nursed before, but I know many nursing moms can benefit from this post. 🙂
alexandria waning says
Great tips. Breastfeeding was hard for my daughter and I so I get that it is, in general, a hard thing. Traveling and pumping sounds challenging. But woman will do anything for their baby! These tips will help make that work.
Veronica Pototska says
I am not there yet, although I am sure I will be traveling a lot even when I will have kids. Your tips are great
ana de jesus says
My friend has just started nursing and has struggles with nursing on the go and said she gets frustrated. I will pass this post along to her!
Brianna George says
wow, yeah i don't think i could have done that. I nursed my boys, but never had to leave for 10 days on such an extended trip. Great job sticking with it though!
LyssaC says
Did your l.o breastfeed again after your trip? I'm going away Sunday for 4 days without my 4 month old. I think that is my biggest fear, that she won't want to breastfeed anymore.
SB says
Great tips!! Question- did you pump at the regular time your baby would have been eating (ignored the time zone difference)? Or adjust to your new time zone? We are going to Europe in a couple of weeks and I'm not sure the best way to handle the time! Thanks so much!!
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S. Michelle Sweet Caporizzo says
Thank you for the article! The only thing I have questions about it your return to the baby. My baby will be almost 7 months when my husband and I take a 3 night 4 day cruise. I work 12 hour shifts so he is used to pumped milk and my mother in law and that is who he is going to stay with at our house. I’m so worried he’s going to forget me or struggle at night because I’m the only one that tends to him when he wakes up, which is every 3 hours to nurse. Any tips or ways to ease my guilt and worry on this?
Skye McLain says
First of all – you're an amazing mama for working 12-hour shifts! Holy moly. I can't imagine. Go you!! I was worried about this as well – but I just really concentrated on having a good time while I was gone and tried (failed) to worry about that. It took a few good nursing sessions (maybe 3 or 4?) to get everything back on a regular schedule again! But your baby is not going to forget you – he will be SO happy to see his mama! You can do it!
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